Working out how much to spend and then picking the right wedding gift can be a serious headache. Fortunately, we have the team from Love Unique Home on hand to offer advice on the best wedding gifts.
Find Out If They Have A Registry
You don’t have to stick to a specific list they have created if you have something in mind, but these lists have been made directly by the couple and are highlighting items they would love to proceed. Remember, you can find something on the wedding gift list and get a slight variant on the product or get a personalised version.
How Much Do I Spend?
This is always a difficult question, but the reason why is there is no blanked answer. You have to consider the budget you realistically have available. You don’t want to spend your holiday savings, however you also don’t want to appear ungenerous. Another factor is your relationship to the pair. If you’re related or incredibly close to them then the price may be higher than a loose friend from school. You can always ask others to find out how much they 
plan on spending, you might feel awkward asking but often they are in the same situation, trying to weight it up in their minds.
Should I Give Money?
Again, this is down to personal choice. Approximately 40% of people give money over a gift, as the couple can then choose to spend the money how they see fit. This also prevents you from accidentally doubling up on a gift that someone else might give. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a money gift, just decide whether you would personally prefer to offer an item rather than an envelope with cash inside.
What If I Can’t Attend The Wedding?
This is actually a common question, whether to buy a gift if you can’t attend the wedding. While you will no longer be near the gift box or gift table at the wedding, if you’re close to the couple then you might want to get something to celebrate their special day, especially if you are upset to miss the big event. On the other hand, this is a personal choice and you should consider how close your relationship is with the groom and bride.
What If The Invitation States ‘No Gifts’?
This is an increasingly popular option, to add ‘no gifts required’ to the invitation as they just want to celebrate their special day with you. If you feel close to the couple, you might want to give them a call and ask if they’d mind you bringing a wedding gift. While some couples can feel awkward about taking money, especially if they have attendees who they know are short on cash, but you could always alternatively arrange for a wedding gift to be sent to their house, to avoid any issues. Alternatively, you could ask if they would like a donation to the charity of their choice.
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