Relieving wedding day stress

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We all know that your wedding day is supposed to be a happy day – indeed, the happiest of days. But what if things go wrong? What if you make a fool of yourself? What if something gets forgotten? Few people avoid wedding day stress.

One key step: You can make it far more bearable with good preparation. If you have organised things well in advance (or maybe you have employed a wedding planner to do this), then you should be able to enjoy the day without worrying about last-minute details.

Just to depress you, I’d like to point out that, of course, almost anything CAN go wrong. Your car may not collect you on time, it may break down, tremendous traffic - or weather - may hold you up. The venue may have a power cut.


arguing couple

And that’s merely the beginning of the list!

 

Attitude

 

The venue should have a planner who will cover this, but if you have the chance to arrive early, make a visual check of the room(s) .

Can you spot anything potentially dangerous, like trailing wires? Is anything missing? Is there enough of whatever you will need?

Preparation

That’s not to say that you should be casual or negligent. You are most likely to be safest, if you employ

stressed woman

good professionals – whether caterers, celebrants, orists, photographers, event planners or others.

If you have to deliver a speech, there are things you can do to prevent this from becoming a ghastly experience. I really can’t do better than refer you to a couple of blogs I have written on this subject.

Checking

It’s worth checking with your suppliers a day or two in advance that everything you have stipulated is in hand and that they know when and where they are expected.

On the day

It is natural and almost goes without saying that you will be nervous. Whether bride, groom, parent, best man etc., you will have at least a moment in the spotlight as centre of attention. Chances are, you are unused to the limelight. A bit of adrenalin won’t harm you.

And you do know that everybody will be on your side, willing you on.


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A good strategy

Best to practise this well in advance, and on the day this will be a great calming exercise: take a few moments out to sit and concentrate on your breathing. Aim to slow it down, but don’t breathe too deeply – after all, it’s not a great idea to pass out!

A less good strategy

Alcohol is the answer to all problems. Well, no, it isn’t, although, for some, a small amount may settle a

drinking bride

few nerves. Getting drunk (“to forget”) is a big mistake and may increase stress (often for other people!).

Phobia

If, despite my suggestions, you fear that it will all prove too much for you, then I recommend EFT (or “tapping”), which can be remarkably e ective in dealing with extreme cases. Isobel has many years of experience in helping to create confidence in any situation. Reach her at www.intherighthands.co.uk.

 

If you simply want a bit of reassurance and guidance, then please contact me. I take pride in putting people at their ease on their big day. Michael Gordon www.vowsthatwow.co.uk or tel 07931 538487

 

 

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